Whether you're road tripping to the Texas coast or flying somewhere more exotic, there are about a million things to remember to stuff in your bag. Packing is probably the least enjoyable aspect of any vacation, but unfortunately, it's also one of the most important, so you'll have to dedicate some time to planning. Annoying, I know. 

The question is, what are the items you don't want to forget before heading to sandy shores? 

For Protection

Sure, you've got enough sunscreen to slather an army in SPF 50, but there's more to beach safety than that. You'll probably want: 

• A hat that can protect your tender scalp and shade your eyes while you're out and about 
• Water floaties for any little ones who aren't totally confident in their swimming abilities 
• A waterproof bag for electronics that might just save your life (or at least your phone) 
• Bug spray, because no one wants to debut bare legs covered in splotchy insect bites 
• Sunglasses - your eyes can get sunburnt too! 
• A breathable cover-up to go over your swimsuit 
  
  

For Practicality 

Okay, I'll admit it: These are the boring items that you don't necessarily want to think about, but they'll make your life so much easier. 

• A beach bag to help you tote around all those pool toys and tasty snacks
• Big beach towels that are perfect for spreading out on the sand 
• Sandals that you don't really care about (so that you won't shed a tear when they're unbearably sandy) 
• Plastic bags so you can separate your sopping wet swimsuit from your clean dry clothes 
• Refillable water bottles, because hydration is important! 
• Aloe vera for that person who will get sunburnt, even with all the sunscreen you brought 
• A giant umbrella so that you can take a few breaks in the shade without having to rent a cabana 
• Foldable chairs (if you can) because they're more comfortable than towels on the ground 
  
• A small, portable cooler for transporting refreshing drinks 
  
  

For Fun 

Finally, the things you're actually excited to grab before you head out. 

• Goggles and/or snorkeling gear for underwater wildlife viewing 
• Inflatable rafts or toys to set your Instagram on fire 
• A waterproof speaker that will let you blast your tunes without worrying about the occasional splash 
• Frisbees or beach balls for friendly games on the sand 
• A book for reading while you relax to the sound of gentle waves 
  
  

Obviously, these aren't all of the items you'll need, but hopefully, the list will get you started! Bon voyage! 

With the Texas heat hurtling towards us at full speed, many of us will be heading to the water in search of respite from the intense weather. Trips to the lake, pool, and even the ocean are an essential part of every Texan's summer vacation.

However, spending time around bodies of water does have its risks, especially for young children. If you're toting around a toddler or even younger children, it's not too early to start teaching them how to be safe in the water. In fact, you should be teaching them to swim at a young age, and here's why. 

Safety Is No Joking Matter

According to recent statistics, almost 800 children drown in America every year, and most of those children are under the age of five. Therefore, it's never too early to introduce your children to water safety. Sure, you always think you'll hear your child cry out if they fall in or that a lifeguard will intervene, but is that really a risk you want to take?

By instilling basic survival skills in your little ones, you'll be able to breathe a sigh of relief, and they'll feel less intimidated by waves and splashes. Now, that's not to say you should dump your child in the deep end or anything: There are plenty of programs and instructors that can help you figure out which baby steps you and your child can take towards confident swimming. Holding them securely in your arms while you walk around the pool can be a great start.

In short, when it comes to safety, there's really no question that teaching little kids to swim is a necessary and worthwhile precaution. 

Swimming Is Great for Their Health (And Confidence!) 

Interestingly, babies and toddlers who learn to swim often display more signs of self-confidence. The sooner you introduce your young ones to water in a smart manner, the more comfortable they will feel around it. In fact, it's often harder to teach older children to swim if they haven't been exposed to water much. Help your children dispell any future fears about learning to swim by teaching them efficiently and preventively. It doesn't take much! Just teaching them the basics can help them conquer worries about submerging their heads and make sure they're able to save themselves in the event of an emergency.

Additionally, swimming is a fantastic source of exercise. You might be pleasantly surprised by how quickly your kid takes to water, and how much they enjoy it. It's a great way to wear them out before naptime, and it'll help strengthen their little muscles. 

It's a Life-Long Skill 

I've met more than my fair share of grown adults who are hesitant to set foot on a boat because they never learned to swim. Not only has it caused them to fear large expanses of water, but it's deprived them of many great water-based experiences. The sooner your child learns that they can be safe around water while still having fun, the easier their future will be. Beaches and lakes won't pose a problem for them, and in the event of an emergency, they'll know that you've given them the necessary skills to cope. Even adults can encounter dangerous situations in water, and the more experience your child has, the better. 

With hundreds of books hitting bookstore shelves every month, it can be difficult to sift through new releases for the best finds. That’s why we’ve done the heavy lifting for you! Here are ten of the most praised novels that were published in May.

A Court of Wings and Ruin by Sarah J. Maas 

This highly-anticipated third book in the A Court of Thorns and Roses series is packed with romance and high stakes. Feyre, a human who has become immortal and ensnared in the politics of a magical realm, must battle against powerful evils to protect the people she loves. She will have to face monsters, deceit, old enemies, and most importantly, herself. Beautifully written, this next installment in the story will sweep you off your feet. 

"A gorgeously written tale as lush and romantic as it is ferocious. Absolutely spellbinding." - Alexandra Bracken, New York Times bestselling author, on A Court of Thorns and Roses (Book 1) 

Beneath a Scarlet Sky by Mark T. Sullivan 

An epic tale of courage, this novel details the life of Pino Lella during the reign of Nazi Germany. He's an Italian teenager, but his days of flirting with girls and being a normal kid are coming to an end as Germany grows more powerful. Rich with history and suspense, this book has marked itself as an incredible tale of resilience. 

“Meticulous research highlights this World War II novel of a youth growing into manhood…a captivating read…” - RT Book Reviews

Lord of Shadows by Cassandra Clare 

Clare follows up on her Dark Artifices series with this second installment, and as always, her new book promises intense drama and lovable characters. Emma Carstairs may have finally avenged her parents, but her life and the lives of her loved ones have been drastically altered. Now, she must walk a fine line between breaking the rules and following her heart. 

"Positively a quiver with secret ardor and murderous zeal." - Kirkus on Lady Midnight (Book 1) 

The Fact of a Body: A Murder and a Memoir by Alexandria Marzano-Lesnevich

This is not just a book about a crime: It is a book about learning to deal with the past. Marzano-Lesnevich tackles heavy topics in her thriller, including forgiveness and truth. The complicated story will leave you contemplating more than just one crime.  

"Haunting... impeccably researched... Her writing is remarkably evocative and taut with suspense, with a level of nuance that sets this effort apart from other true crime accounts." - Publishers Weekly, Starred Review

Flame in the Mist by Renee Ahdieh 

Best-selling author Renee Ahdieh's newest YA novel is earning tons of praise for its beautiful portrayal of Japanese culture, as well as its strong character and plot. Mariko, the daughter of a samurai, is promised to the son of an emperor. On the way to fulfill her duty and marry her betrothed, she encounters more danger than she ever imagined. 

“Rich in magical realism and cultural nuance of feudal Japan, Ahdieh’s series starter begins with a girl-power bang... A wonderful choice for YA shelves, especially where lush fantasy is popular.” - School Library Journal

Eleanor Oliphant is Completely Fine by Gail Honeyman

Although she has a difficult time with social engagements and tends to blurt out whatever she's thinking, Eleanor likes her life. When she unexpectedly befriends Raymond, her coworker, and an old man they help off of the sidewalk, she realizes that opening her heart may change her life forever. 

"Eleanor Oliphant is a truly original literary creation: funny, touching, and unpredictable." - Jojo Moyes, #1 New York Times bestselling author of Me Before You

One of Us Is Lying by Karen M. McManus

This "who done it" tale will have you paying close attention to every tiny detail as you attempt to solve the mystery. During one session of detention, teenage Simon doesn't make it out alive. The question is, which of the other high schoolers in the room is responsible? 

"This fast-paced blend of Gossip Girl, Pretty Little Liars, and classic John Hughes will leave readers racing to the finish as the try to unravel the mystery on their own." - Kirkus Reviews

Ginny Moon by Benjamin Ludwig 

Ludwig's teenage character, Ginny, has recently been adopted. She has autism, which makes settling into a new home and life pretty difficult. As she adjusts, she realizes that remaining voiceless is no longer an option. Illuminating and powerful, Ludwig's novel teaches an important lesson about listening to those who don't always speak loudly. 

“A powerful affirmation of the fragility and strength of families.” —Publishers Weekly, starred review

Apollo 8: The Thrilling Story of the First Mission to the Moon by Jeffrey Kluger 

You may think you know about man's first voyage to the moon, but you've never heard the story told quite like this. Kluger's account of the mission reveals the risks these Americans took and how they changed our view of the world forever.  

"Kluger, a science journalist, previously co-authored the best-selling book turned blockbuster film Apollo 13, and his latest foray into space history overflows with similarly cinematic details. Apollo 8 delivers the definitive story of what is, and always will be, one of humanity's greatest adventures." - Scientific American

Girl Out of Water by Laura Silverman 

Not only is Silverman's YA novel the perfect beach trip companion, but it's also an adorable coming of age tale with a splash of romance. Anise plans to spend her summer relaxing, surfing, and hanging with friends, but when she's forced to leave California, she's forced to face her past... and the charismatic boy she meets in Nebraska. 

"Silverman's debut is an entertaining and well-done coming-of-age story featuring a likable protagonist who learns that home is less about place and more about being surrounded by loved ones and friends. Silverman does a commendable job showcasing a diverse cast of characters, and the interracial romance is sweet and clean. " - RT Book Reviews

Let's face it: You love your children more than anything, but sometimes, finding time to be alone with your partner is more than a little challenging. Between the surplus of sports practices, crazy meal preparations, demands at work, and the thousand other things that get in the way, parents hardly get any time to themselves. So, how can you find the time?

Well, you can start by taking a step away from the family life and doing some parents-only travel. Now before you start protesting that it isn't practical or that you'd feel incredibly guilty about abandoning your kids for a weekend, let's look at some of the reasons parents should be planning a few vacations sans children. 

It Reminds You to Put Your Spouse First 

My dad used to always tell me that the best way for him to be a good father was to love my mother wholeheartedly. As a child, I rolled my eyes and scoffed. Isn't devoting yourself to your children the best way to be a good parent? Surprisingly, not always. Research has shown that putting your spouse before your children is actually a healthy way to facilitate a happy family life. Parents give up so much to care for their children, but attention to their marriage is one thing that should never be shirked. In his book To Raise Happy Kids, Put Your Marriage First (2010), author David Code states that “as we break our backs for our kids, our marriage and self-fulfillment go out the window while our kids become more demanding and dissatisfied.” Other psychologists agree that parents don't dedicate enough time to themselves or their partners. 

There is nothing wrong with taking the time to work on your marriage away from the kids. It doesn't mean you're being negligent or selfish. In fact, it's just the opposite: You're working to keep an important relationship in your children's lives running smoothly and happily. 

You Don't Just Get "Us Time," You Get "Me Time"

Like David Code was pointing out, part of building a strong relationship with your partner involves setting time aside for yourself. By taking a few days for the two of you to relax, you'll actually recharge your own batteries. No one will be screaming at you to fix the Xbox remote or complaining that they need help with their homework. Not only will your marriage feel rejuvenated, but so will you. 

Your Kids Might Even Have Fun While You're Gone 

If you're thinking that your poor children will be sitting around moping the entire time you're gone, then you might want to think again. Many kids actually have a blast while their parents are out of town. Think a G-rated version of Risky Business. Sometimes, they need a break from your parenting and busy schedule, too. As long as you're able to find a competent but fun babysitter, then your kids will probably be fine, even if they're a little tearful at the beginning. Plus, you'll probably promise to bring them back a few souvenirs, and every kid loves the sweet anticipation of a new toy.

It Prevents You From Becoming a Helicopter Parent 

Believe it or not, parents can actually care a little too much about their children. If you find yourself paying close attention to every detail of your child's life, especially when they're older, then you might actually be hindering them from finding independence. Margaret Nelson, author of Parenting Out of Control: Anxious Parents in Uncertain Times, points out that when parents are too involved in their children's lives, their own relationships begin to suffer. So, take a breath, and leave your kids in the capable hands of another adult for a day or two. Your children will learn to be a little more self-reliant, and you'll learn that you've raised them to be okay without your constant supervision after all. 


If you're a BubbleLife parent, do you and your partner go on vacations without the kids every now and then? Share any comments or advice you have in the comments below! 

We're almost there! Within the next few weeks, students will be released to the exhilarating freedom that is summer break. If you're a parent, chances are your kids are already bouncing off the walls in anticipation of sun-drenched days away from the classroom. Their excitement is more than a little contagious. 

Why not mark the start of the summer season and the end of the school year with a fun activity or two? Here are some cost-effective and easy ideas to kick off your kid's vacation. 

Host a Water Ballon Fight 

Nothing screams "summer" like running around the backyard in bathing suits, avoiding being drenched by the burst of a well-thrown water balloon. Kids will have a blast with the activity, and it's a great way to really make the beginning of their vacation memorable. 

Go on a Picnic 

Before we know it, the Texas heat will be back in full force and we'll barely be able to stand outside for five minutes without feeling dizzy. So, why not make the most of the warm (not blistering hot) weather while we can? Head to the park or an open field and spend some time soaking up rays while snacking on fresh fruit. 

Make a Summer To-Do List

My parents always used to do this with my siblings and me when we were little. Each of us was allowed to pick one activity we wanted to do at some point over the summer break, and we'd work our way through the list before school started again. It could be anything, as long as it could be done in one day. Trips to the zoo, laser tag, and pool parties were all fair game. 

Camp Outside 

Summer is the time for s'mores and late night campfires, and now's the perfect time to start. You don't have to go far to camp with kids - even pitching a tent in the backyard is exciting. 

Take Them to the Movies 

Tons of family-friendly films will hit the big screens this summer, and a family trip to the theater is always a great way to make the day special. Let them order a few ridiculously expensive concessions since it's a celebration. If you're feeling particularly adventurous, you could check out a drive-in theater. 


What are you guys going to do with your family to celebrate the end of school? Comment with suggestions below!